Ashley and JP seem to be doing what's right to build a strong foundation for their relationship. Throughout the process, Ashley has remained open and honest with JP, showing compassion and empathy for how he's feeling...and vice-versa. Their reactions to issues like jealousy and insecurity are proportionate to the situation. They've been openly communicating their feelings, they're not afraid to get vulnerable, and there have been no games. From my perspective, at this point in time, this is a good beginning and bodes well for the future.
Lesson: If you're with a partner who reacts more like Brad and Emily, i.e., disproportionate hurt and anger surrounding basic relationship issues, flooded with emotions, and reacts instead of having a mature perspective...RUN and DON'T LOOK BACK!